To have and to hold - at age 70 - is the most beautiful thing
-by Sweet Muffin

What is the most beautiful thing that happened in your life? All the time, I can*t help but wonder, what is the most wonderful moment in my life? To tell u the truth, until now i still could not find the answer.

But whenever i see old couples walking side by side slowly and holding on to each other for support, my eyes will somehow feel moist. To me that is the most beautiful moment captured. (Hey, i guess your parents are not so loving after all)

And here comes the big question, how did they manage to stay married for sooo long? (Think: At the beautiful moment of your life, would u ever stop to wonder *But how long will it last?*??) Marriage is difficult is a fact that was drilled into me throughout my growing up years. You could blame a failed marriage on incompatibility, extra-marital affairs, diverging career paths, lack of support and respect for each other. There are simply too many tempting reasons to divorce. In the past, getting a divorce is a strict *no-no* but nowadays it*s just like ditching an old handphone that easy.

This should sound familiar to u : **If two people don*t love each other any more, they should just divorce.** - I have found a new meaning to this statement- It*s easier to find something new than fix something old. So would u still stay for better or for worst? or choose a easy way out?